Thursday, May 27, 2010

"The Secret"

The law of attraction is very powerful. I learned about it 3 years ago from a documentary called "The Secret". My godmother and I went to a Rich Dad Poor Dad seminar and signed up for a program called the Rich Dad Education. The program allowed you to team up with someone that could be your advisor/mentor. However you had to have money to be able to join the program, lots of it! My godmother nor I had the cash flow to do it. The man over the phone told us that in order to be a part of it you had to be determined. We explained to him how determined I was and he advised that we come up with ways to get the money. He said that I should either read or watch "The Secret". It just so happened that my godmother had it sitting in the living room. I watched it with her and learned that you are your own personal genie. What you believe will come true. If you keep thinking that there will be a bill in the mail with your name on it, when you open the your mailbox it will be sitting there. However if you believe there will be a check then that's what you will get. This is exactly why I try my best to think positive everyday. I believe that I am destined for greatness and I just know one day I will make it happen.

When I was a child I was always taught that you're technically not grown until you can hold your own (meaning pay your own rent, light bill, water bill). However as I get older I see that nothing is ever satisfying to others. I am a family oriented person and I am still considered a child in they're eyes. This I can understand and deal with. I can not deal with a person that is the same age as me who is not or can not handle there own self judging me and telling me that I am not grown. If your relationship is not one I idolize then I don't think you should be giving me relationship advice unless I ask your opinion. My motto has always been how can you tell me something if you do not have all your problems worked out. For instance "If you are fit how can you be a personal trainer?" "If your hair is always not in tack why would I ask you to be my hair stylist?" A person that I considered my best friend just told my sister who is known as a "snitch" everything that I have been telling her about my relationship with my boyfriend. I don't feel that it was any of her business to tell however she said she's grown. She said that I wasn't because I do not walk away from my relationship. I don't think that this makes you a grown up. I do not feel that having a child makes you a grown up because children have children this day in age. I think that its a process everyone has there own ways in maturing.